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Guess what Ladies and Gents: a woman’s worth is not connected to her vagina
In response to how T.I disrespected his daughter Deyjah
I was more liberated than they thought a woman should be.
There are 2 things many women in the US have been told their worth is supposedly connected to:
1. sexual history
2. the presence or absence of a romantic relationship partner
I never gave a shit about either.
Okay maybe “never gave a shit” is a bit of an overstatement.
I simply knew and appreciated my self-worth without the consideration of these 2 things.
I had sex when I chose, with whom I chose and as many times as I chose. If anybody had a problem with it, that was their internal issue: not mine.
After all, it never affected my grades, my freedom to experience places I wanted, never affected my work success… etc.
In other words, how in the hell does your choice to NOT have sex or to have it stop any of your goals or daily joys from being yours???