Let’s Talk About Sex (Part 2 of 5)

Who you f***ing?

Hey a crude way to start this off but… i bet you laughed a little.

So why is PARTNER SELECTION important?

If all you want is a quick unfulfilling rushed climax, then it’s not important.

BUT if you really want great sex, then it’s completely important and indispensable for you to choose well AND TO PACE YOUR PROGRESSION TO FIRST SEXUAL EXPERIENCE TOGETHER. (Choosing when to first be sexual with a new partner will be in Part 3)

But for now… what do I think you need to pay attention to when choosing whom to lay with?

Let’s start with the most obvious: Have you and they been tested for HIV and Herpes and HPV?

This should go without saying: Get a damn lab report and show each other your statuses. Even condoms break BUT ALSO Herpes and HPV do not need genital connection to be transmitted. Oral contact and skin-to-skin contact can transmit these and NO you don’t need a break out to transmit it.

It literally scares the f*** outta me, how many grown ass people I know that have never been tested OR that sleep with others with no protection and don’t bother getting the lab report.