Let’s Talk About Sex (Part 3 of 5)

All the moan-worthy opportunities come with … time

This post is about the first time, BUT Part 4 will be about all the following times with that same partner.

Now let’s get into the juicy advice…

If she doesn’t trust you, she won’t be truly open for you.

Some people feel the timing of the first sexual encounter is very important while others feel it isn’t a factor. What do I think?

As in most cases (me being a Gemini and all LOL) I am somewhere on both sides of this debate.

On the one hand, I do believe there is a best time to choose to first have sex with a new partner, BUT when that is, depends on the couple and how one IMPORTANT THING develops.

That important thing is INTIMACY

Intimacy doesn’t happen at the same pace for any person or couple. And do not get the definition confused. Intimacy is not physical in this discussion. You need social and experience based intimacy, as in spending time together, developing a bond and closeness. It’s the same reason that many businesses and organizations have team-building exercises; people work better together and are closer when they SHARE EXPERIENCES.