Let’s Talk About Sex (Part 4 of 5)

Do you know how to play… I mean really play?

This is for all you active-sensual-play-partners. You’ve had sex at least once if not too many times to count, and you think you should do what… most of the time wait until dark and get in the bed to connect? Go through the usual motions that you’ve done 100 times before?

(if you have not had sex yet with the person you’re interested in, then Click HERE to read Part 3 about timing the first time just right)

That’s the muh-fuggin problem right there with any couple who says they got bored at some point. If you don’t want to get bored OR if you already feel bored, here’s something you might not realize

… it’s

your

own

damn

fault

Both of you. Because it takes 2 unfocused lovers to get bored.

What do I mean? Well, Love it’s just like with any human connection, if you make it fun, then it’s gonna be fun.

Real talk: Choose one of the following to compare your view of a long term partner to.

a) ball and chain

b) roller coaster ride

c) a responsibility