One of the most important lessons about dating is this…

Everyone I know has gone through multiple relationships and/or a series of people they “spent time with” and time and again, the experiences that were the most troubling involved the same issue.

Now let’s first make it clear. The majority of your dating experiences will likely end calmly.

I’d say from 70 to 90% will just be temporary connections that served a purpose for all involved. Perhaps, you just enjoyed spending time together or you both needed some physical attention. And in these cases, the temporary nature of the connection was just what you all needed.

Maybe, you created a long term friendship that just wouldn’t have worked as a full-on partnership.

But for 10 to 30% of your dating experiences, you had drama… until one just fits right.

SIDE BAR:

If you had over 30% with drama, it’s a good idea to examine yourself and perhaps seek counseling to unearth if you are creating an unstable situation for yourself. The only people I know who have a trail of traumatic dating experiences, often have chaos within their spirit that they never reconciled.

But back to the rest of…